I am a junkie for trying new things. If it interests me, I want to try it. Here is the dilemma: With so many balls in the air, I am destined to drop a couple. What if I drop something important and it crashes to the floor and breaks into thousands of tiny pieces? In the name of balance and reducing anxiety, here is experiment #5: choosing to put a couple of balls down.
Stage one is to identify what balls I am juggling:
Raising the boys
University degree
Watching Y&R (yes, totally embarrassing to share but this is for science)
Painting
Writing
Cleaning the house
Mild Facebook addiction
Making meals for the family
Spend time with husband
Spending time with friends
Exercise
Yoga
These are the things that take up a minimum of an hour each week. Obviously, some take significantly more. On top of this, there is a giant list of things that I want to try out. Being a Reiki Master? Maybe? Why not? Oh, I have no time. Right. Sigh.
Stage two is to do a little thinking about what I am willing to sacrifice for the greater good.
Stage three is an evaluation of success. I hope to have more time to do what is most important to me. I would also like to feel a little more relaxed.
Follow up on a past experiment: “Make a plan” Pthhhhhh. (That’s what happened to it.) It seems that I am not willing to create a new plan each day. I think that once I put down a couple of balls I will have to construct some sort of permanent calendar/planner/reward chart for us to use. Good thing I’ll have all that free time once I put a couple of other balls down.
Good news: Yesterday's 'I've got this' attitude WORKED!!!! I survived, everyone was fed, the kitchen floor was clean for a little while and I didn't crash until halfway through dinner. Yay me!
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